It’s very common for young people to feel stressed out from time to time. Stress is a normal part of life and can even be beneficial in some situations. However, if you’re worried that your child is under a lot of stress and it’s been going on for a while or is affecting their everyday life, there are things you can do to help them.
This article can help if you want to:
- learn about the causes of stress and how it can affect your teenager
- be able to spot the signs of stress in your child
- help your child manage stress more effectively.
Young people and stress
Stress is a serious health concern for young Australians. In 2015, a research study by Mission Australia found that almost 40 per cent of 15- to 19-year-olds are very concerned about their ability to cope with stress.
Stress is a normal part of life for teenagers and can be caused by many different things. The more we learn about stress, the better able we will be as parents to model the behaviours that can help our children learn to cope better with stress. Learning about why we get stressed and how to manage it more effectively is a great skill for life.
Dr Bill Kefalas explains the warning signs and effects of stress
Causes of teenage stress
Why are teens stressed? Common things that teenagers say cause them stress include:
- homework and school (especially exams)
- expectations and pressure to do well at school from parents and family
- their social relationships with friends and boyfriends/girlfriends and the issue of sex
- life challenges, such as leaving school or getting into tertiary studies or employment
- lack of time - having too much to do, feeling unprepared or overwhelmed
- lack of sleep.
If you suspect your child is stressed, talk to them to try and determine if these or other things are going on. If you can identify why they’re feeling stressed, it will be easier to help them address the cause and manage their stress appropriately.
Seek support if necessary
Stress on teenagers can be harmful to their health and wellbeing if it seems as though they have been enduring it for a long time. If your child has been showing signs of stress, try our suggested strategies to support them. However, if your child has been stressed for a long period of time, or if nothing seems to be helping, it’s a good idea to seek some outside help. Have a chat to your family doctor, or consider giving your child an opportunity to talk things over with a counsellor.